Gardening with Mom - 2024 05 15
My life with Mom is constrained to activities around home. It is ok for me to go for a 20 minute walk with the dog off the property and leave Mom in her chair or on her bed, but I start to feel uneasy for any longer period than that without knowing someone is looking in on her and making sure she has what she needs. In November, 2021, Mom was put on the palliative care registry and we organized ourselves to 'let nature take its course' on a six month timeline. Had we ever done this before? No. Did we know what to expect? No. We set aside our regular life routines of planning trips to visit grandchildren, or planning renovations, or planning to rescue a second dog, or install a new chicken coop. We put our lives on hold to organize and manage for Mom's needs, thinking this was a short term, acute situation that needed our full attention. At the end of the first six month period, we consulted with the Palliative Care nurse and extended the palliative care registration. Mom ...